In typical Rachelle the worry wart fashion (dropped “Mommy,” as the condition began well before the babies), I have been drowning in self-deprecation-induced-fear. What’s that? Well, it’s when I loath something about myself aloud and hope to hear a rebuttal from someone who loves me: a compliment, a reassurance, a pop in the head if it’s needed.
And the fear I built up? Well, a very special friend of mine from one summer, at band camp in sixth grade entrusted me with capturing her wedding on camera. Believe me when I say I was both honored and petrified all at once.
I’ve never been married. I relish in the bride magazines and love dwelling in front of the TV watching Lifetime’s Wedding Sundays. I L-O-V-E seeing pictures of weddings. I cry at all the sentimental, mushy, cheesy moments. And I set the ultra-sweet totally priceless and romantic experiences into the recesses of my memory.
I knew I wanted to help Miss Ericka on her special day, and I knew I had to do it right. This time I wasn’t second shooter, I was the shooter. So I pulled out all my resources on posing, flash, portraiture, and detail shots. I studied my 500 Poses for Photographing Brides: A Visual Sourcebook for Professional Digital Wedding Photographers. I read Digital Wedding Photography: Capturing Beautiful Memories from cover to cover (hey Glen, you’re amazing). And in true photographer-parent style, I enlisted my kids as models and tested out my new flash unit and lenses. But even as I drove down to VA Beach for the event, I was freaking out about the job.
Anyway, my first effort to regain control of myself was to control something else. I insisted that poor Mike, from The Hilton Garden Inn, center the Bride/Groom table in the window it was placed in front of. I redecorated the cake display and shot cake portraits from every angle I could think of. (Yes, I put the display back the way it was.) And then I waited for the wedding to begin.
The day was quite long, but I enjoyed myself much more than I thought was possible amidst my worrying state of mind.
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